About suicide

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“Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem”

Dr. Richard Bandler


Usually, people think that suicide is about ending life or ending suffering in life.

When we think about suicide, in fact, we think about changing something in our life.

Suicide is supposed to bring that change (to stop suffering). At the moment, it may seem to be the only option available.

When we want to help somebody who contemplates suicide, the problem is not fighting against the suicidal tendencies of that person (what people usually attempt to do) – the real issue is finding better options.

So, if you think about killing yourself answer that:
what is it that you would really like to change in your life – that if you did – you could still witness it happening?

If you are so radical that you are ready to eliminate your “present self”, why not to go one step further, and to change yourself the way, that your “problem” is not a problem any more?

If you are ready to remove yourself entirely from the equation to “solve your problem”, you have nothing to lose if you choose to lose “your present (troubled) self” in the process of change.

Usually, we have problems “outside” only because of how we are “inside”, and if we change that, the outside problems tend to disappear by themselves.

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