For couples

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Drs John and Julie Gottman are internationally recognised researchers and clinicians whose work has transformed our understanding of intimate relationships. Drawing on decades of research and therapeutic practice, their short clips offer clear, practical insights into communication, conflict, emotional connection and the patterns that help relationships either grow or gradually erode.

 

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