Tom Jagiello
I’m 
here not to fix you.
I’m here because I’ve seen what happens when someone stops trying to fix themselves — and starts reclaiming their life.
That moment I see in their eyes.
The shift.
When the story of limitation gives way to something quieter — and stronger.
There’s no greater satisfaction for me than witnessing that change.
My work draws on several disciplines.
I am an EMDR therapist and Ego State practitioner, an NLP Trainer, and a Master Practitioner of Time Line Therapy™, Clinical Hypnosis, and Coaching. I’m also certified in Goal Mapping.
But methods are not the point.
I don’t believe people “have problems” — I believe they’re stuck in a frame where choice appears to be missing. My role is not to label or explain. It’s to support you in re-accessing what’s already there, and finding the kind of movement that fits your real situation.
I work with individuals in English or Polish via Zoom.
Together with, Dorota Rospierska — a systemic family psychotherapist — we also work with couples and families. (You’ll find more on her profile.)
This isn’t about improvement.
It’s about integrity.
I offer: Hypnotherapy, EMDR, Ego state therapy and complementary therapeutic approaches. 
Member of British Society of Clinical Hypnosis (MBSCH) 
I am listed at Hypnotherapy Directory
My qualifications:
- Certified practitioner of EMDR (LSCCH)
- Certified practitioner of Ego State Therapy (LSCCH)
- Certified Trainer of NLP.
- Licensed Master practitioner of Neuro Linguistic Programming, (trained by a co-creator of NLP Dr. Richard Bandler)
- Certified Master practitioner of NLP,
- Certified Master practitioner of Time Line Therapy™
- Certified Master practitioner of NLP Coaching
- Certified Master practitioner of Hypnosis,
- Certified Practitioner of Brian Mayne’s Goal Mapping
- Practitioner of AIT,
- with over 40 years experience in meditation.
About me:
I was born and raised in Poland during the communist regime.
Since my teens, I knew I wouldn’t stay.
There was always a sense — quiet but certain — that I would live in an English-speaking country.
But I lived behind the Iron Curtain.
It wasn’t just unlikely. It was impossible.
Then came 1989. The system collapsed.
By 2004, the political atmosphere in Poland was becoming — to us — increasingly embarrassing. At the same time, the UK opened its borders. A man from Lincolnshire, unable to find local staff, started recruiting in Poland. The job wasn’t good. It wasn’t well paid. But it was legal — and it was a beginning.
That’s how we left. That’s how it started.
Since I can remember, I’ve been drawn to the mind — hypnosis, parapsychology, meditation.
In autumn 1981, at 17, I began a meditative practice through what felt like an improbable sequence of events.
In 1982, during the Martial Law, I met Zen Master Sungh Sahn and entered formal Buddhist training.
A year later, influenced by Lama Ole Nydahl , I began practising Tibetan Buddhism in the Karma Kagyu yogic tradition.
I founded the first Tibetan Buddhism centre in my city and helped set up another in a nearby town.
For 15 years I was deeply involved in running these centres — offering lectures, meditation instructions, and talks on working with the mind.
At about the same time, I began practising Tai Chi.
In the late ’90s, I came across my first NLP book — Solutions by Leslie Cameron-Bandler.
What I found there felt familiar — I realised I had already been doing it, just in a different language.
When we moved to the UK, my wife’s Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology — awarded by one of Poland’s best universities — was recognised as a Bachelor’s. She faced a choice: do a conversion course, or start again. She chose the harder path — four more years of systemic family therapy training.
That meant I had to wait.
When the time was right, I completed the full NLP path — from practitioner to trainer — adding other methods along the way.
I was able to start working with clients quickly and accumulate hundreds of hours. I remain grateful to every one of them.
For me, NLP, Time Line Therapy™, and hypnosis are a natural continuation of my previous path.
EMDR and Ego State Therapy allow me to support trauma work with the most effective tools I know.
Over forty years of meditation gave me experience in working with the mind — directly, honestly, without excess.
My attitude is simple:
Let’s find what works.
Let it take as little time as it needs.
Life is precious so let’s use it well.
